PinnedJess MatthewsSoftboy vs. FuckboyIn my haste to educate against the notorious fuckboy phenomena of 2019, I took a cynical stance towards any male who was incapable of…May 23, 2020May 23, 2020
Jess MatthewsPlot twist: Closure is fake.I hate to tell you this but closure isn’t real. Closure has become an overly romanticised, almost poetic concept that we’ve decided that we…Sep 12, 2021Sep 12, 2021
Jess MatthewsWhy scent matters to seductionOn the ragged path of seduction we often forget the power of scent. It’s not a surprise that the elusive olfactory senses get neglected…Jul 9, 2021Jul 9, 2021
Jess MatthewsHow to: Understand Love LanguagesThe idea that we intuitively understand our romantic partners on a deeper level is incorrect. In fact being a freelance mind reader is on…Jul 3, 2021Jul 3, 2021
Jess MatthewsHow to tell if SHE’s into you.In a rare occasion of willing subversion I’m taking one for the boys and giving solid insights into the magnificently perplexing but…May 19, 2021May 19, 2021
Jess MatthewsThe Single (girls) guide to surviving Valentines DayValentines Day is polarising, and on the 14th of February the world is divided in two. Half of us become hazily consumed by lust and…Feb 13, 2021Feb 13, 2021
Jess MatthewsGo Slow Baby: How soon should dating become a relationship?In dating and relationships we talk about timing a lot. Timing of meeting someone and whether the connection you forge can develop into…Oct 7, 2020Oct 7, 2020
Jess MatthewsA love heart icon among millions: Dating & Social MediaAnything to do with the heart is never easily classified as black & white. So when social media came round swinging that “how big’s ya…Sep 17, 2020Sep 17, 2020
Jess Matthews“Shoot to Kill” and 3 other tips for using dating apps wellDating apps cop a lot of shit and frankly i’m not shocked. They’re often slapped with the label of responsibility for cultivating a…Sep 8, 2020Sep 8, 2020
Jess MatthewsSex with the ex makes the sex (spectacular)…When I think of Sex with the Ex I have an almost pavlovian response in the form of a Biggie line dancing into my brain.Aug 23, 2020Aug 23, 2020
